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Dealing with the Opponent’s Reaction

“To each action, there is an equal and opposite reaction” 

– Sir Isaac Newton’s Third Law of Motion

You’ve just had your first meeting. Turnout was very good, spirit was high, and it looks as if your organization has a good plan. Naturally, your opposition will now just roll over and die, right?

Wrong! Isaac Newton’s law is only partly correct when applied to organizing: The opposition’s reaction can be overwhelming and unpredictable. When you develop both long-term strategies and short-term tactics for your group, you must try to calculate how the other side will react. Otherwise, you leave yourself open to being “blind-sided.”

Remember this general point: the men and women who represent government or industry and on whom you are pressing your case have probably thought about action/reaction too. In fact, if you are dealing with, for example, a company’s “Community Relations” representative, you can bet that they have received extensive training studying your psychology and your reactions. That individual’s job is to get the most for the company while giving in as little as possible to you. They often think they’ve seen it all; after all, they’ve probably done similar things in other communities – and they really believe you are all probably just a bunch of hysterical amateurs. As long as you keep reminding yourselves of the “rep’s” attitude, you can turn this smugness to your advantage.

With that in mind, here are some typical “reactions” you’re likely to meet:

  1. Raising side issues

You want to talk about ground contamination. They respond by complaining about government regulations. The best “side issues” for them to get into are things that you know and they know they have no control over. 

Your response: stay on point.

  1. Agreeing to something easy

Typically, they will look to give you something easy, like a promise that “we’ll take that under consideration,” or set up a study or advisory committee to look into it, or a promise to give you some information.

Demand action or a definite, conditional promise (i.e. “We’ll do ‘X’ if you can get so-and-so to do ‘Y’”).

  1. Divide and conquer

As you may already have discovered, any citizen who decides to challenge people in authority is labeled a “radical.” They may try to call you or your group “socialist,” “woke,” or whatever; they know that this causes splits in the group. 

Other “divide and conquer” tactics include offering one faction a concession to entice them to “sell out.” They may also set out several inadequate choices and tell you, “You decide who should get the benefit of the limited resources we have to deal with this problem,” or they may match two citizens’ groups against each other, saying that one community will get the dump and it’s “up to you to choose.” 

Watch out for attempts to split your group by pitting one neighborhood against another, one race against the other, or one income group against the other. The best way to avoid “divide and conquer” tactics is to discuss very openly in advance and to be united, while being aware of differences between individuals and groups.

  1. Symbolic satisfaction

Public officials know how to smile, nod, and use body language and words to give the impression of agreement, when in reality they have no intention of conceding. People can then leave thinking they’ve accomplished something, until, in later discussion of the overall picture, they realize they got nothing. 

Get agreements in writing on the spot so that everyone knows exactly what has been accomplished.

  1. No money

How many times have you heard, “Sorry we just don’t have the money to deal with your very worthy problem.” As Cesar Chavez said, “Don’t tell us what you can’t do; tell us what you can do.” 

To tackle this one, analyze the budget and prepare alternatives in advance.

  1. There’s something wrong with you

In this category there are a hundred little put-downs and insults that they will use to try and shake your confidence, split the group, and justify turning you down. Some examples are:

  • “You don’t have all the information we have” (and if you did, either you’d agree with us or, if you didn’t agree, you just didn’t understand it).
  • “You’re unreasonable and therefore we can’t continue this discussion. Come back when you’ve calmed down” (which means, when you’re ready to give in).
  • “You’re too emotional. How dare you raise your voice or have any feeling for the issue that brought you here” (targets don’t like to talk to people who have a genuine personal stake in the issue).
  • “Who does your organization really represent?” (The routine slap in the face. “You’re nothing but a bunch of radical crazies”).
  1. If we do this for you, we’ll have to do it for everybody

Maybe so but so what? In this case, ask who else has requested it or who else needs it.

  1. I’m only one vote, or I can’t make this decision alone

This may be true, but again, so what? Here you can ask, “Then what will you do?” or “Who is your superior?”

  1. We need more information

Sometimes this is a simple stall. Your opponent is most successful with this excuse when he or she not only gets you to believe it, but also gets you to go running around collecting more information. 

Things You Can Do To Deal With “Reaction”

Discuss action/reaction among leaders in particular and with the membership as a whole if possible.

Carefully plan any encounter (meeting, action, etc.) you have with officials from the other side. If you’re planning a general meeting, invite the guest to show up one hour after the meeting starts so that everyone in your group can be clear about what the organization wants. If the guest shows up early, (as they often do, deliberately) don’t let him/her in until the appointed time.

Role play and practice the meeting or negotiation. This can be especially effective if either someone in your group knows the guest or if this is not the first time you’ve met.

Have a clear list of what you want.

Post a list of the things you want on large paper so everyone can see.

Summarize what was accomplished at the end of the meeting.

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Getting and Using Help

There is a growing array of groups, agencies, and experts that offer their help to groups dealing with toxics and waste issues. Often this help is sincerely offered, gratefully received and truly helpful. Sometimes it’s not.

Too much help, or the wrong kind, can be toxic to grassroots groups. CHEJ believes almost any “helper” can really help IF your group is aware of its own needs, is clear about the helper’s agenda, and stays in control of the relationship between the “helper” and you, the “helpee.”

TYPES OF HELPERS

Helpers you are likely to find knocking at your door include:

  • State, regional or national groups who say they identify with your cause and offer activities on your issues (protests, canvassing, news events).
  • Potential allies who want to form coalitions with you.
  • Lawyers who offer to represent you.
  • Technical experts or labs who offer to sell or donate their services.
  • Businesses wanting to market products or services related to your fight (e.g. water filter or bottled water dealers, vitamin sellers).
  • Writers or film makers who think they can get your story sold to major media outlets.

ANY OF THESE PEOPLE COULD BE USEFUL IF…

  • You have an overall plan for your group.
  • What they offer fits into that plan.
  • You ask the hard questions and insist on concrete, specific answers.
  • You make a clear agreement with the helper.
  • You follow a simple rule: MAKE SURE you come out of any relationship in better shape than when you went into it.

PRNCIPLES FOR RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN LOCAL AND NATIONAL GROUPS

1.  Recognize the right and necessity of each participant to survive and grow.

2.  Acknowledge that it is possible to work together in ways which are based on mutual respect.

3.  For this to happen, local groups need to stand up for their rights and control their own fights.

4. National groups need to be honest about their needs and what they want from local groups.

5.  Since the basis of our Movement is people power, we need to keep our eyes on the prize…will this (whatever you’re considering working with another group on) bring more people into active participation?

6.  One important measure of national and other coalitional activities needs to be: WILL THIS BUILD LOCAL STRENGTH?

7.  Complaints and criticism are important and should be offered directly and with caring.

8.  Bad mouthing is toxic.

9.  To respect differences, we must first recognize them and then struggle around them but not paper them over.

QUESTIONS TO ASK ABOUT HELPERS

1.  Who approached whom first? Did you ask for help or did the helper offer?

2.  What is the helper’s agenda? What does the helper want from the deal?

3.  What do you have to gain from being helped? What will it cost? Will being associated with the helper be a plus or a minus? Will the benefits outweigh the costs? Does the “help” fit into your plan? Can you do without the help?

4.  Who controls the relationship?

5.  Where has the helper provided this sort of help before?

6.  Who’s paying for the help?

QUESTION # 1: WHO APPROACHED WHOM?

Did you ask for help, or did the helper solicit you? It’s common for a group that gets its first major media coverage to then be approached by other organizations, lawyers, technical experts, lab services, water filter dealers and radical political groups who offer to “help.” At Love Canal, Lois Gibbs had to contend with helpers who didn’t even bother to make an offer – they just parachuted in, did their thing and left her to mend the damage. It’s often better to let other groups or individuals make the first move. That way, you can control the relationship right from the start. Not everyone who comes to you unsolicited is bad – just remember, check out the helper before you accept the help.

QUESTION # 2: WHAT DOES THE HELPER GET OUT OF THIS? WHAT’S THE HELPER’S AGENDA?

Everyone has an agenda. Some helpers are sincerely altruistic. Others want to rip you off. Some are funded to provide the services they offer. Others want your money. Always ask helpers what they expect to gain. For instance, what does CHEJ want? We want to help you win locally and link you with other groups to build a movement for environmental justice. As you may know, we were founded as a result of Lois’s struggle at Love Canal and her determination to help local groups FIGHT BACK. For a long time, we did this without getting paid. Now, in addition to member support, we get funding from foundations that helps pay for our work and our salaries.

QUESTION # 3: WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO GAIN?

What exactly does the helper have to offer? How much will it cost? Will you benefit by being associated with the “helper”? Will the benefits outweigh the costs – for example, what if the helper is linked to another cause or institution that might embarrass you? How does the help fit into your plan? Can you do what you need to do, get what you need to get, without them?

QUESTION # 4: WHO CONTROLS THE RELATIONSHIP?

Here’s where we see a lot of problems: where the helper, in return for the help, starts to run the group. Examples: the lawyer who diverts the group’s energy from organizing to working on the case (from which the lawyer stands to make big bucks); the national organization that gets you working on their national issues, taking time and energy away from your local fight; the “helper” with little understanding of what your community is all about, who starts dictating strategy and tactics; or the helpers who play off one leader of the group against another, in order to manipulate the group into following their agenda.

QUESTION #5: WHERE HAS THE HELPER DONE THIS BEFORE?

What were the results?  Ask for references. To be doubly sure, you can check with us to see if we know folks who have worked with that helper. For example, there are lots of characters running around who claim they helped out at Love Canal or take credit for other big toxics fights. Some really did help. Some were no help at all. Some simply happened to show up one day. Others are simply lying. You’ll never know unless you check out their references.

QUESTION #6: IF THE HELP IS BEING OFFERED AT NO CASH COST TO YOU, HOW IS THE HELP BEING FUNDED?

This is a good question people ask us all the time. The answer is CHEJ is supported by you, our members, and mostly private foundations. We take no government money and no money from corporate polluters. Some groups fund their help by canvassing your community door-to-door. This could be a big help to your community group – or it could leave the community drained of money when you try to do your own fundraising. Other organizations get grants to support their help and may want to use your story to get more foundation support. There may not be anything wrong with that provided they tell a true story and aren’t in direct competition with your own fundraising plans. In addition to membership support that’s how CHEJ funds itself.

THERE IS – NO SUCH THING AS A FREE LUNCH

We all need a helping hand from time to time. Most of us were brought up on the old saying about not biting the hand that feeds you. But we’ve learned that while you’re taking the food from the one hand, you should watch to make sure the other hand isn’t picking your pocket.The principles for relationships between local and national groups were written by the late Tom Sampson, Oakland, CA.